Thank you for your replies
M3rma1D... no worries you are not discouraging at all. I already figured that but was hoping i might be missing something easy. She lives a couple hours away from us otherwise i would get her involved with us more.
Blackrhino... We assume that one day us being healthy will help her decide to change. That is all we have to go on right now. And thank you for the compliments, it is feeling really good for us too