Thanks Mike for putting a smile on my face--that's awesome!
I was good and didn't have cake. Truthfully I was too stressed to eat much anyway. Anybody here ever had anyone walk right past them without saying anything as if you invisible--well that was me today. My Dad's brother--if you can call him that--and sister have basically disowned me from family. I love my Aunt so out of respect for her I went but it was awkward as the really hot place. We did manage to get a family picture. I'm standing next to my sister-in-law which I try not to do and let's just say that one won't be printed off!!