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Freshman30 03-20-2012 03:04 AM

Stuff my Boyfriend Says
 
I saw a thread on here called "Something my mother said" and it sparked conversation about "Stuff my Mother says." While my mother has said some pretty whacked things to me about weight loss, my boyfriend is even more clueless. I'd like to know what your boyfriends, fiances, spouses, or life partners have said to you.

I'll start us off:
"Your face feels smaller in my hands."
"Maybe soon we can do it standing up."
And my favorite (This one is more cute than clueless, but I had to include it:)
"There will never be less of you to love; your personality has always been bigger than your ass."

hippie_girl 03-20-2012 03:24 AM

lol mine always tells ask me why are you dieting I'll love you even when you get fat :mad: Thanks honey

taubele 03-20-2012 03:34 AM


Originally Posted by Freshman30 (Post 76684)
I saw a thread on here called "Something my mother said" and it sparked conversation about "Stuff my Mother says." While my mother has said some pretty whacked things to me about weight loss, my boyfriend is even more clueless. I'd like to know what your boyfriends, fiances, spouses, or life partners have said to you.

I'll start us off:
"Your face feels smaller in my hands."
"Maybe soon we can do it standing up."
And my favorite (This one is more cute than clueless, but I had to include it:)
"There will never be less of you to love; your personality has always been bigger than your ass."

I've gotten the standing-up one too! Almost the exact same comment!

My BF is pretty dang supportive, I'm lucky, but here's some gems:

"I think you could hit 105, don't sell yourself short" (I have no idea why he thinks 105 lbs. is the magic number, but that's too small for me at my height, it puts me underweight on the BMI!)

"I wish that you only lost weight on your belly and legs and not everywhere."

Within the same day: "Are you sure you want to eat that?" (when I was reaching for some chocolate) and then like an hour later "It seems like you can't eat anything, you should lighten up and live a little" (?!?!?!?!)

crazigerl 03-20-2012 05:00 PM


Originally Posted by Freshman30 (Post 76684)
I saw a thread on here called "Something my mother said" and it sparked conversation about "Stuff my Mother says." While my mother has said some pretty whacked things to me about weight loss, my boyfriend is even more clueless. I'd like to know what your boyfriends, fiances, spouses, or life partners have said to you.

I'll start us off:
"Your face feels smaller in my hands."
"Maybe soon we can do it standing up."
And my favorite (This one is more cute than clueless, but I had to include it:)
"There will never be less of you to love; your personality has always been bigger than your ass."

OMG, I almost peed myself reading this. Dang water.

wildbeanerz 03-21-2012 07:17 AM

I think we've all gotten the 'standing up' one! LOL

My hubby said once... "When you lose all your belly, your boobs will be to your knees." :rolleyes:

Freshman30 03-21-2012 10:50 AM


Originally Posted by wildbeanerz (Post 76879)
I think we've all gotten the 'standing up' one! LOL

My hubby said once... "When you lose all your belly, your boobs will be to your knees." :rolleyes:

I've heard that one from friends. hahaha

These are all pretty great. :P

yunalee 03-21-2012 01:25 PM

my fiance has said seom things to me

but the most he said is that he notices i've been losing weight and that i'm almost back to the point when we first started dating.

which is encouraging

wildbeanerz 03-22-2012 04:14 AM

I wanted to buy more shoes the other day and the comment I got was "Why do you need more shoes? Are you feet losing weight too?" LOL

volleyballgranny 03-22-2012 04:56 AM

My BF said (15 years after we met): "No matter your size, my heart starts beating faster when you walk into the room." This was the on-again/off-again BF.

An interim BF said (when I told him I'd lost an inch in my bust): "Go off that diet. NOW!"

KoolKatUK 03-23-2012 12:32 PM


Originally Posted by wildbeanerz (Post 76879)
I think we've all gotten the 'standing up' one! LOL

Hehe, yep! :D

My fiancé also tells me he'd think I'm beautiful even if I get really big which is sweet and lets me know he loves me, but it doesn't really help with motivation lol although I don't think I'd ever want him to tell me he'd stop loving me if I reached a certain weight. :D


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