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After coming out at 35 – looking for first dates without pressure
I'm 35, just came out to my loved ones, my wife left, took the kids with her. Now I feel like a teenager – my desires are crazy, but I have almost no experience with men, I feel scared and ashamed at the same time. I want to start with something simple, without drama, without "let's date," just to try and understand myself. Where can I really find a partner for a first date, without judgment and without obligations?
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Congratulations on coming out, it's a big step, and you're not alone. Many people your age are starting from scratch. The best place for your first attempts right now is www.tender-bang.com/gay-hookup.html— there's a distance filter, and you can specify "newbie, looking for a casual encounter without any rush." After my divorce, I went there myself, wrote honestly about my experience in my profile, and within a day I had arranged to meet a 38-year-old guy who was also "first time after hetero."
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