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DietDivaB 01-02-2011 12:29 PM

Determined to lose...lol !
 
Hello to all, my name is Brandi. I am a 37yr. old mother of 3. I have been heavy all my life and for once and for all I am ready to loose the weight. I have small children that I want to see grow up and get married. I also want to be healthy again. As a result of my being morbidly obese ( 290lbs. ) I have hypertension and high cholesterol. I just want to be sexii again. My goal is to loose 60lbs. by my birthday 4/20. I know that this is 4lbs. a week but I am confident that I can do it. I am looking for friends to take this journey with so I will be commenting and posting almost daily. Good Luck to all who are struggling with me. We Can Do This !!!

DietDivaB 01-02-2011 12:35 PM

Pics !
 
I will be posting pics too, so I can see how i'm shaping up. Hope no one gets sick...LOL

kadenacat 01-02-2011 02:42 PM

You're going to to it this time Brandi! You have the motivation and a great support system here on FitDay! We'll do it together!!

Carol

DietDivaB 01-03-2011 03:39 AM

Hi Guys !
 
I wanna say thanks for responding to my post. It is my intention to do a low carb diet combined with some protein shakes to sub for meals. I was very successful years ago with the low carb thing. I lost 30 lbs. in 3 mos. and I was hott to death...lol
I'm a sugar addict, i love nd crave sugar. I bought some pills to help with the sugar cravings so I should okay. Be back later, i'm working.

kadenacat 01-03-2011 10:46 AM

Hi Brandi,
I think a low carb diet can be good, as long as it's not a no carb diet! We need those good carbs for energy and brain function! Low carb doesn't work for me. I find the problem to be that I can't cut carbs forever and as soon as I start eating them again the weight all comes back! My plan is to eat a balanced diet and watch my calories. I don't plan to deprive myself of anything, just have very moderate portions. That combined with exercise exercise exercise and I think I can reach my goal!

Carol

01gt4.6 01-03-2011 04:07 PM


Originally Posted by DietDivaB (Post 30143)
I will be posting pics too, so I can see how i'm shaping up. Hope no one gets sick...LOL

before pics are great, that way you'll have something to compare the after pics to... even if you don't post them.

DietDivaB 01-06-2011 12:39 AM

Hi Mike,
 
I saw your pics and they really did inspire me. You look amazing. I swear when I get to where u are I may just wear saran wrap n bandaids to cover the important parts...LOL ! Thanks for the response. ;)

DietDivaB 01-06-2011 12:45 AM

Hi Guys ND Gals !
 
This week has been horrible, I messed up all week but today i'm back on it. I'm not motivated but I know that when u gotta get back up and try it all again. Some times I feel like an addict. Well I guess I am an addict, my addiction is food. I'm stressed but I know when I reach my goal I'll be feeling really good. I'm so trying to see the light at the end of my tunnel. Thanks for the kind words of encouragement. confused:I

DietDivaB 01-06-2011 12:49 AM

Thanks for your support, gawd knows i'm gonna need it. Today is one of those days when my head is really not in the game at all. I feel like a dog about it cause it's way to early in my journey to be feeling like this....SMH !!!

mecompco 01-06-2011 01:13 AM


Originally Posted by DietDivaB (Post 30758)
Thanks for your support, gawd knows i'm gonna need it. Today is one of those days when my head is really not in the game at all. I feel like a dog about it cause it's way to early in my journey to be feeling like this....SMH !!!

Try to cheer up, Brandi. I'm a food addict as well, and yes, it sucks.

If it helps any, I jumped (well, figuratively) for joy when I hit 300 pounds--it beats the heck out of 400, let me tell you!

I give you all the credit in the world for taking control of your problem before it got worse (like mine).

Now, get busy and do something other than think about food--I find the busier I am, the less I'm apt to go foraging for food.

Regards,
Michael

kadenacat 01-06-2011 10:11 AM

Hi Brandi!

It's OK, we're all going to have those days when it's rough! Just remember why you're doing this and remember that you're stronger than you give yourself credit for being! Not only CAN you do this, you're GOING to do this!!

I agree with Mike, the busier you are, the less likely you're going to be running to the kitchen for food. Sometimes when I feel like I want to eat something I know I shouldn't I take a walk. It doesn't have to be a long walk, or at a really fast pace, just take a stroll! Also, be sure to keep plenty of healthy fresh foods on hand. That way, if you feel the urge to snack maybe you can grab a couple of carrot sticks or some fruit! That way you curb your urge to eat and not take in too many calories!

Another trick I use is to have a "goal dress" (or pants, shorts, outfit, etc) that I keep in plain sight in my room. Everytime I see it I remember what my goal is and what I have to do to get there.

You can do this girl! Keep the faith and stay postitive!!

Carol

jwonsch 01-07-2011 12:52 AM

Hi everyone, I'm new here and I love what I'm seeing! Free charting (very important) free journal (can be private or posted) and the reports (amazing) But... the blogging I am reading is truly the sweetest of all! The encouragement, the TRUTH, our journeys will be easier if we take them together. Even for us who have made this kind of journey before and here we are having to do it again but.... this is the year! We have the tools and we are going to be giving each other suppoprt all the way. I am looking forward to it. Brandi, I hope that you will look at all the positive things that can come from this low week and see that the encouragement you can get here from myself and Carol will help give you the courage to keep trying to reach your dreams. J

msmwinter 01-07-2011 01:56 AM

Sometimes the hardest part is messing up and getting back on track. I struggle with that too, anytime I get a cold or life gets stressful, for some reason the exercise and eating healthy goes out the window. And the funny thing is.... that is when I need it most! My motivation has been to remember how good it feels to get into a smaller size or how my body feels from eating better. Getting off track is the easy part, but you are doing the hardest part, getting back on! I have just started the posting site and am looking for motivation as well. Good luck!


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