VabeachgirlNYC and I have been friends for a year and can see each others stuff but she had sent me the request b/c I couldn't figure it out.

Well it was unlikely that nobody was using this feature, and it turns out that only a select few knew how. Now everybody knows how. :)

As far as 'discovering the wheel' I just located this post and this is the earliest I found where somebody figured this all out:

http://www.fitday.com/fitness/forums...html#post17650

Adding Friends
 

How do I add friends to my FitDay account?

http://www.fitday.com/fitness/forums...html#post65384

How do I send message to just added friend?
 

I have just joined again and can't seem to find how to send messages to a friend or to add the friend accept...pls help , thanks.:confused:

Merged this recent inquiry with main thread regarding this topic.