So I just read all 14 pages! *whew*
Anyway, just wanted to jump in here and say that I too am having this non-sexy issue! I feel like EVERYTHING about me is lacking in sexiness. It's like I look at pictures of myself from a few years ago, and I was smaller, healthier, and I just looked so happy! And now I look at pictures of myself, and I am squishy and pale, and I look sickly!
However, over the last week or so, I am feeling loads better about myself! The number on the scale hasn't gone down any, but I have noticed small changes (I'm not QUITE as squishy around my upper abdomen area, and my shirts aren't quite as tight). And other people are noticing too!
I did accidentally find a way to hold myself accountable for losing weight though: I inadvertently promised my boyfriend I'd buy a "sexy" outfit once I lose 10 pounds. So now I HAVE to lose weight, because he's going to keep pestering me until I get that outfit! lol