7-Day Motivational Thread starting 2/6/12 - Page 30

ToriD1012 · 02-13-2012, 01:23 AM

Subtle? yeah, that's it

Seriously though. I still have no clue how to approach this....do I walk up to her and say "so, tell me. are you shooting up again? is that why you scrapped my fridge for the little bit of dough you got out of it??"

01gt4.6 · 02-13-2012, 01:31 AM

I'd just come flat out and tell her that she needs to replace your fridge. Maybe she should pawn some of HER stuff to get the money to do so. I wouldn't even bring up the drugs. It's not like an addict is going to be honest, if she were honest she wouldn't have pawned your fridge.

ToriD1012 · 02-13-2012, 01:36 AM

That's the thing, I have no money in the fridge. So technically I don't need her to replace it, cause I have no where but storage for it anyway. I'd just like her to be honest and say "hey, I needed the money, so I got rid of the fridge." But yeah, an addict is never going to be honest. And I know that.

01gt4.6 · 02-13-2012, 01:44 AM

How about this... find out where she pawned it and see what they gave her for it. Then tell her that you had no intention on pawing it but since she did, she needs to give you the $18.25 that they gave her for it. Then politely tell her that if she touches anything that belongs to you you will break her legs.

If she has a PO and she gives you any crap I'd call her PO on her. If she has kids I'd call CPS and let them know that you fear that she shooting drugs.

ToriD1012 · 02-13-2012, 01:48 AM

She didn't pawn it. She took it to the salvage yard and had it scrapped. And depending on what scrap metal was going for that day, is what she got for it.....

Besides, who PAWNS a refrigerator????

01gt4.6 · 02-13-2012, 01:49 AM

I know that all those things are easier said than done, especially when it comes to family but once a family members steals my stuff, the gloves come off!

01gt4.6 · 02-13-2012, 01:50 AM

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Originally Posted by ToriD1012

Besides, who PAWNS a refrigerator????

someone that would rather get $18.25 over $3.28 from a scrap yard.

01gt4.6 · 02-13-2012, 01:53 AM

Lets look at this from a different angle... did you do something to piss her off? Does she think that you owe her because of something? If so, she may have done it to be spiteful. I had a friend that had a friend steal his car stereo. He returned the favor by stealing the guys aluminum flat boat. Instead of selling it for several hundred buck he brought it to the scrap yard and got like $15 for it. He did it just to get even.

ToriD1012 · 02-13-2012, 01:54 AM

lol so she's not even a SMART thief!!!

I'll probably eventually mention it to her. But then again, maybe not. There's been so much family drama the past year, I don't really want to stir anything else up. (LORD the peace maker Libra is coming out in me)

ToriD1012 · 02-13-2012, 01:56 AM

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Originally Posted by 01gt4.6

Lets look at this from a different angle... did you do something to piss her off? Does she think that you owe her because of something? If so, she may have done it to be spiteful. I had a friend that had a friend steal his car stereo. He returned the favor by stealing the guys aluminum flat boat. Instead of selling it for several hundred buck he brought it to the scrap yard and got like $15 for it. He did it just to get even.

I've done nothing to her! If anything I've always been the one to help her! Countless trips to the ER. Picking her up when her LOOOOSSSEEERR boyfriend dropped her off in the middle of the projects, AT NIGHT! If she were going to be spiteful, steal my tv.....