Hi sexySMIB,
I just wanted to thank you. My sister has been a Navy wife for 20 years and has been able to look to her sister and senior wives for help and support. Even if it's just for a short time here and there, do your best to seek others out. Don't hide in your house.
Take full advantage of any and all programs offered. That's how she stays sane and focused during deployments.
Good luck and thanks for your service.