Originally Posted by chubby49
"Yes" I'm chubby but why do men allways say that they love u 4 who you are and say the oppaset when there around there friend. I'm not bad looking and I love my self, I know I need to lose 40lbs I'll be 50 next year in aug. then see what happens:
"I know I need to lose 40lbs". So, are you going to do it then? Your words don't sound confident. Are you resigned to losing the weight, and if so, then say so. Say "I am going to lose 40 pounds". This site will help you achieve your goal, but you need to set your goals first, and then stick with your plan of action. And my advice is, do it for yourself because if you're doing it for anybody else it's just not going to work out as planned.
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