Welcome both of you!
I think that you will find that FitDay is the best tool available to get a handle on your eating. Try logging for a week or 2 w/o changing much in your normal eating habits. Then take a look at pie chart, nutrition graphs and tables to really get a handle on your strengths and weakness.
There are a ton of other tools, like the "Moods" tab that can help you identify triggers. Many of us are emotional eaters - I didn't realize until I logged moods and foods that loneliness was a big trigger for me. Since then, I have made a concerted effot to keep the social calendar filled.
Have fun exploring all the tools and keep us posted on your progress!
2.5 years, 45 pounds later... 128ish pounds