Welcome missmolly99
Sounds like your ready for change. To have a supportive husband is a great thing. If I can do this you can so go for it and keep me posted on how your doing
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~Renee~
51 year old (5'4")
Highest weight 234 (9 years ago)
Starting Weight 185.8 (4/10/12)
First Goal 160 (7/10/12) 
161.2
Second Goal 155 (8/31/12)
Current Weight 139.2 (4/24/13)
New goal - lose weight slowly, build muscle & lower body fat
"There is no diet that will do what eating healthy does. Skip the diet. Just eat healthy"