To answer your question Kathy, yeah there's love. Today he told me he wants to lose weight with me, which is a first. I said I like that idea and I'm going to encourage him to really work out a plan with me.
In the meantime, I had a GREAT day today. I couldn't believe it but I looked forward to working out and I did about an hour's worth of cardio and strength training. I feel like a million bucks. And not once did I think I was doing it for him. More, I was thinking how he might live to regret pushing me to get hot.
I do agree with you about the abusive behavior, hapababy. I'm working hard on my business so I can take care of myself, whether I stay or I go.
Thanks to both of you. *Hugs*