Goals:
1) plan meals -
yes, yes, yes, yes
2) stick close to plan -
ate much less, very close ate more than I wanted to and gained back a pound 
swapped ckicken leg for oysters and added pumpkin/cocunut soup when I went to a club instead of a drink or a dessert
3) 1600 cal max -
840, 1016, 1560, 1400
4) drink 6 glasses water minimum -
5 or 6 6 5 6
5) stretch every day -
no yes, yes, yes
6) get back into exercise reasonably-
no a bit nah a bit
7) don't overdo -
yes, yes did a bit more than I should have but it did make me feel more festive (I told myself I was doing it "for my family." Nah.) didn't "do" at all
8) let go of anger -
no better yes meh but I did get out of itby going out with DH and a friend to a club
9) meditate -
no, no yes, yes
10) write -
yes writing class; not enough (see overdo as in holiday stuff); not enough started too late
11) don't be a self (or any other kind of) hater -
no YES, yes, yes
12) don't answer phone or spend too much time online till I get work done -
no but this will be one I will try and follow better no, no; too distractable