Im looking for a diet buddy too. Im also a 22 year old female. I just had my second child 7 months ago and honestly thought i woul dbe farther than i am in my weight loss. After my first child i lost 20+ pounds and felt great. Im 5'4'' and 181 pounds! I would also love to loose 40 pounds just to start off with and be able to fit in my pants again! Im considered obese technically which is a huge blow to my self esteem.