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Old 08-28-2012, 05:23 PM   #3 (permalink)
rpmcduff
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Great reply Cassie!!!

Kerry,
My heart goes out to you. If he loves you, then he should be glad to be apart of the solution. Enlist his help to become more active. Go for walks, join a gym, read a book about nutrition, and do it together. But always do it for you. Not to fit the body image someone else wants to impose on you. Weight loss is just a by product of getting healthy and fit. If you are not doing it for you, then you will fail. (Sorry if that is blunt.) You need to make the decision that YOU want to get healthy and fit whether this relationship works out or not. I sincerly hope that you and your partner can make the changes needed to maintain and grow your relationship.
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Male, Age 53 Height 5'-11"
Start, Spring 2009....,.. 270.0 lbs
January 21, 2010. ....,...255.0 lbs (Joined Fitday)
September 10, 2010..,..223.8 lbs. (-46.2lbs)
Mini-Goal......................225 Achieved 9/21/2012
Mini-Goal......................220 Achieved 10/26/2012
Current.........................216.2 lbs. (-53.8 lbs)
Mini-Goal.......................215
Goal..............................200



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