I totally get You.
Apart from looking bad...
What was humiliating for me is that I had to ask my boyfriend to tie my shoes for me, because I couldn't bend.
And clothing... having nothing to wear for work, and my stomach slipping out when getting out of car or sitting.... uhhhh
And You're right about home - everything was dirty because I had no strength to clean floor or to bend behind furniture. I only did dishes and some easy stuff...
I decided to do something because all of this, and now I feel better, happier, stronger, faster, bendy
... I can tie my shoes without sitting.
I only hope I'll keep this weight for good.
My good looking female colleague told once:
''Taking care of your weight is pure hygiene. If You take care of your clothes, take shower every day, wash hands, hair, putting makeup, taking care of your outside - why not taking care of what you put inside