Cassi, thanks for your reply. By 'we' I mean my husband and I. We do not work out together because of time an juggling the kids nurse eat together at dinner time. We both know what we want and support each other as best we can. I go to the gym by myself and in the evenings i go walking with my neighbor who also wants to loose weight. She recently weight watchers and is totally motivated. We keep trying and don't give up.
I will keep you up to date, got to get the kids ready and i am off to the gym.