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Old 05-03-2012, 03:55 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I agree with most of the above - saying that you're dieting for whatever reason tends to make aggressive or defensive responses. I also just say "Oh, I'm full, but thanks!" about desserts with friends, or saying something like "Trying to cut back on chocolate/white flour/sugar/fats/etc." (whatever excuse seems valid) also does help. They may say "Oh, then just get the ice cream!" which is why "I'm full" often works for me.

If they're good friends, I find that a very simple and polite "No, thank you" often works, and I'm trying to do that more often (because I don't need to make excuses for myself!)

If someone asks me why I'm dieting or changing my lifestyle, I just say "for my health, and because I feel better when I eat this way." There's no real witty comeback that I've found for that one from people! You don't need to give any other reason than that! Good luck, and I hope your friends are supportive!
Female, 31 years old, 5'4 1/2" tall
Starting weight 1/4/11 = 215.2 lbs.
Weight 10/22/14 = 175.0 (net: -40.2)
Last mini-goal: 175 lbs. REACHED 10/22/14 --REWARD: New wallet
Current min-goal: 170 lbs.
Next large goal: 165 lbs. by 12/25/2014
Lowest weight: 156.7 lbs.
150.2 lbs. <--- Official "Healthy BMI" weight
Estimated final goal: 130-140 lbs.
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