No, it's much worse than that for me.
My husband was "husky" when I met him, in fact he out-weighed me by 70 pounds. But when I got pregnant with our first child, he went on a diet and gave me every last one of those pounds. It was awful. Now we have 3 beautiful daughters and I'm big as a garden shed. So I started dieting this year in hopes of losing it completely. And do you know what that man had the nerve to say to me and my mean lean cooking? He said "Wow this is great and really low-cal low fat, where were you 8 years ago when I was trying to lose weight?" EXCUSE ME? Where was I? Knocked up with your BABY, that's where!!!