Thanks so much for the support, it really helps.
Kelsey, we have something else in common. I also became instant step mom last year. My husband's 13 year old daughter was not getting along with her mom and begged to live with us. We now have full custody and I am a real "mom". It's a lot harder than I thought, but also more rewarding than I expected.
Have a great weekend, and yes, I'm starting over today!