Replies and threads
I've at this for about a year now and I have found it fascinated to note which threads and topics take off, and which seem to whither on the vine. I am an analytical person in habit and profession and I cannot find a pattern - which makes it even more interesting. So don't be offended!
But Cassie's suggestion is a good one. The Ladies' only section tends to be very active and you will likely get good responses there.
Best of luck to you - you are well on your way now!