View Single Post
Old 01-19-2010, 12:34 AM   #5 (permalink)
FitDay Member
Join Date: Jan 2010
Posts: 4
Default more about him than you??

Hi Debbie,
It sounds like this may be more of an issue of your husband's self esteem and self image rather than his view of you and how attractive you already are to him. You don't mention if your husband is in good shape or has any issues with weight. Could it be that he is threatened not by how you will be looking, but that he isn't able to make the committment to look after himself the same way? If this may be the case, I say keep forging ahead on your own journey, and instead of shying away or arguing with him, show him how attentive and happy you can be as you become healthier. If he feels reassured, who knows, he may not look at your weight loss as a threat, but as a way to feel great about the hot wife he's got....
karinmoses is offline   Reply With Quote