Think of it as his loss! You don't need him!
You say you are " very, very, very fat". How much do you want to lose? My BF and I broke up too.
It's his loss as far as I am concerned. My friends took me out this weekend and I had plenty of guys approach me so I figure it's his loss, not mine!
I started a new Motivational Thread here Motivational Thread Starting 12/16/2013
Why don't you come join me?