So glad you joined FitDay. There is so much great information, support and tools here on FitDay take time to look around and take full advantage of it all. It is hard to monitor weight when you have to focus your attention on your family. Your Lily is so precious! You are worth it, you have to be fit to take the best care of your family. Being fit while your Lily is young will be a good example for her in her future. Being fit will help you be a better partner and mother (and daughter, sister or what ever) It isn't about being skinny or what you look like, it is about being fit. Remember that it is never too late and to never give up. We are here to support you.