I was going to try to give a "guy's perspective", then I read RNJane's response and realize that what I was going to say, has been said.
I second Jane's reply. The person that Ember described is someone with issues that go way beyond food and diet. I am not in the Bliz405 camp....yet.... but a "very serious talk about these issues" is in order, followed possibly by third party counseling if you want to save the relationship. This isn't about eating.
<< EDIT: SO SORRY, I realized this was the Women's Only forum after I posted. I used the "New Posts" button and saw the message, didn't see which forum. Sorry for crashing the party, my mistake. >>